Selasa, 17 Agustus 2010

Lady Gaga: Sacred Monster

 Ms. Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta, aka Lady Gaga, has all the right numbers.  Her Life Path number (derived from her birthday) corresponds to a '1'.  And, really what other number could she possibly be!  She has blazed a career for herself that only a '1' is capable of.  She's all those good things that a '1' symbolizes e.g., leader, entrepreneur, self-starter,  independent thinker, original.

And if that weren't enough, her Expression Number (derived from the letters in her name) is a '22' which is one of the two Master Numbers (the other is '11').  'Our '22s' are the Master Builders of this world. Although they are visionaries, their heads are not in the clouds.  On the contrary, '22s' have a firm footing in the material world and are able to see their dreams realized in a concrete and tangible fashion. 

Another way to think of '22' is of a '4' which vibrates at a higher intensity or frequency and '4s' are the worker bees of the Universe.  These people are diligent and persevere no matter what the odds.

Gaga's birthday is March 28th, 1986 making her an Aries. Aries is the 'Daredevil' of the Zodiac. Their element is fire which makes them passionate, intense, energetic and can be difficult to contain.

If you add up Gaga's birth month of March, which is '3' month, and her birthday of '28', you get '4' (after reducing '31' to its smallest digit), so there is the '4' again. I would venture to say that '4' will continue to have a special significance for her, so she should keep that in mind.

2010 is a '7' year for her and '7s' represent relationships. In  Chinese numerology the number '7' is associated with weddings and good luck.  The media report that Gaga has reunited with her ex-boyfriend, Luc Carl. Their names share both a vowel, 'a', and a consonant, 'l', which usually bodes well for a relationship as it's purported that if couples share letters it means they are a match.  However, her three names all begin with '1' letters ('s', 'j' and 'a'), which I don't think his 'l' (a '3) can stand up to. '1s' are dominating and have a tough time compromising.

What's amazing about his name is it contains 5 '3s'. That's a lot of '3s' for such a short name which would indicate that his personality is pretty dominated by those traits associated with '3' and there is not much room for flexibility. 

'3s' are the 'optomists' and 'enthusiasts' of the Universe. However, if their energy becomes distorted, they can be 'childish' and immature.  Hm mm....given Luc's history of cheating and betraying her, Gaga really needs to be vigilant and certain about his motives for reuniting with her.  At the end of the day, Gaga may be like so many women who believe in the cultural myth that it only takes the love of a good woman to reform a man.  I hope that is not the case and that they can work things out.

Selasa, 20 Juli 2010

The Twilight Saga: Beauty and the Beast Redux

I don't know about you, but I've been fascinated as to why Stephannie Meyer's books have been so phenomenally successful and I think I've got it.

In order to really appreciate the genius of her story, "Twilight" and its appeal, it should not be judged as a novel.  Rather, it's a fairy tale.  I think what the great American literary critic Leslie Fiedler said about James Fenimore Cooper can be applied to Stephannie Meyer. Cooper, wrote Fiedler, is our worst novelist, but our greatest mythologist.  Certainly, Meyer is not a great writer and she certainly is not in the same literary league as Fenimore Cooper. Nonetheless, she has been positively brilliant at reinventing the classic fairy tale  with all its camouflaged symbolism in such a way that appeals to a wide swathe of women, young and old alike, who identify with Meyer's teenage heroine, Bella.  And that is no mean accomplishment.  It requires great perceptive and intuitive prowess in order to mine the cultural psychic, so to speak.  Don't forget, that the inspiration for her saga came to Meyer in a dream.

I don't know if Meyer was consciously aware of her literary antecedents, but her role model for Bella is, of course, the literary fairy tale "Beauty and the Beast" (La Belle et la Bete). It's hard to believe that Meyer was not conscious of their striking similarity as her heroine, for starters is named Bella Swan. You not only have the semiotic nod to Beauty, but to the fairy tale of "The Ugly Duckling" as well as it is into a swan that the little duckling is transformed.  And Meyer's hero, the vampire Edward, joins the ranks of a long line of male fairy tale archetypes. In this instance, the 'beast bridegroom', who frequently appears as  a monster who awaits the love of a fair maiden to reverse his ill fortune, usually brought on by an evil fairy whom the prince/beast has betrayed.

Originally, "Beauty and the Beast" was written for the French aristocracy in the 18th century by a French noble woman, Madame Gabrielle de Villeneuve. Her rendering of the tale was derived from another French female aristocrat, Madame D'Aulnoy, who originally introduced the story to the French nobility.  In turn, Madame D'Aulnoy adapted her version of the story of Beauty and the Beast to literary form from French peasantry oral folk lore.  However, it is Madame de Villeneuve who established the temp plate for all future renditions of Beauty and the Beast, even to the watered-down and dismal Disney animated film of the same name.  It's important to understand that these French aristocratic ladies were not writing fairy tales for children, but rather for their female peers and young women of high rank.  Their intent was to instruct young women of noble birth in the socially acceptable mores and customs of the French court.  In short, what were the appropriate codes of conduct for a socially acceptable woman to adopt and practice.

Invariably, the covert or disguised message to these women was that self-denial and self-abnegation in a woman is a virtue and by exercising self-restraint and repression of her innate instincts and desires, she will emerge heroic.  And, best of all, she will succeed in attracting a desirable man who will elevate her on the social ladder of rank and prestige.  As the scholar extraordinaire Jack Zipes explains in his definitive book, "Fairy Tale as Myth, Myth as Fairy Tale", and from which I drew much of my source material on the origins and the cultural meaning of fairy tales, the code of Beauty and the Beast was to delude young women into believing and accepting without question that they would be realizing their goals in life by denying themselves. The irony, of course, is although Beauty and the Beast was penned by a woman, the cultural lesson it conveys was actually scripted by the prevailing male patriarchy.

Meyer adopts this same didactic lesson for Bella.  And even though her message first appeared in literature over three hundred years ago, its purpose remains the same.  Here is Meyer's Preface to "Twilight'.  Bella is speaking.  "I'd never given much thought to how I would die-though I'd had reason enough in the last few months-but even if I had, I would not imagined it like this.  Surely, it was a good way to die, in the place of someone else, someone I love. Noble, even. That ought to count for something."

And indeed it does!  It secures Bella's place in the pantheon of unwitting masochistic women who, through no fault of their own,  have sacrificed their hopes and reams and ambitions in order to maintain the male dominated status quo.

There is little doubt as to who sets the ground rules in Bella's life and world. She lives with her divorced father, who just happens to be the Police Chief of their hometown Forks, Washington.  You'd be hard pressed to come up with a better archetype to represent the gate keeper of societal law and order. Her own mother, although still alive, is remarried and conveniently living in Phoenix, AZ. Her absence in Bella's life sets up the story's necessary Oedipal relationship between Bella and her father which becomes strained and tested with the arrival of Edward, Bella's suitor, and her father's rival for his daughter's affections (on two different occasions, Bella's dad gives her pepper spray to use against Edward if he gets too frisky!).  And there is little doubt as to who's in charge of Bella's and Edward's courtship. Theirs is no level playing field. Edward is clearly calling the shots.  In fact, Edward's resistance to Bella's physical advances border on the sadistic.  His excuses for rebuffing her are seductively cloaked in what appears to be on the surface as chivalrous behavior.  He explains that he is trying to protect her because as a vampire he possesses extraordinary strength and may hurt or kill her accidentally. And, he adds,  he is old fashioned and traditional.  I'll say!  Edward's latent message decoded is "Submit to me no matter how painful and demeaning and I'll reward you with the ultimate prize, immortality, because if you are obedient and wait to have sex with me until we are married, I will turn you into a vampire and we can, indeed, 'live' happily ever after."

Of course, the cruel joke is on Bella because in order to obtain her immortality she must literally abandon her self-hood and 'kill' it off. She will live a 'living death' both spiritually and metaphorically speaking. In this way, too, Bella is the twin to Beauty who is blindly faithful to her widower father and, subsequently, to the Beast thus perpetuating male sovereignty.

Sadly, things don't appear to have changed all that much since Madame de Villneuve's time when it comes to young girls and women and their unconscious willingness to deny themselves in order to 'get their man', even if he is a 'beast'.  As a couple's therapist I see it time and time again e.g., women who stay with their 'beast bridegrooom' even if it's at a terrible emotional price, or in the case of physical abuse, their life.  But as Bella plaintively reflected at the beginning of her story and what ultimately becomes her raison d'etre, "Surely it was a good way to die, in the place of someone else, someone I loved. That ought to count for something'.  Ah, how hope dies hard.

Jumat, 16 Juli 2010

Pell Mel: From Hero to Zero

What the hell is going on with Mel Gibson?  His rage and vitriol just boggles the mind.  Sadly, 'ol Mel joins a the ranks of a long list of male celebrities who have, quite literally, gone off the rails.

With respect to his ex-girlfriend, Oksana Grigorieva, this was not a match made in heaven. There is little compatibility between them as evidenced by their not having any letters in common in their respective first names. Never a good indicator for romance.  In addition, her name contains all of the letters in his last name with the exception of the 'b', which indicates that Oksana will enjoy a one-up position to Mel e.g., he will be the subordinate player.

Oksana has a very powerful name which emits an intense energy. Her expressive number (derived from the letters in her first and last names) corresponds to a '1' and 'ls' do not tolerate being second in line. Think ambitious, independent, self-confident. However, if their energy is distorted '1s' can be overbearing, arrogant, and self-serving. In either case, they are leaders.

Oksana's Destiny Number (derived from one's birthday) is also a '1'.  And if that weren't already enough, she was born in January, a '1' month, on the first day e.g., 1/1/1970. All those '1's make her a force to be reckoned with. Amazing!

Oksana Grigorieva also contains the two Master Letters, 'k' and 'v', which correspond to the two Master Numbers, '11' and '22'.  Very heady stuff. These letters and numbers emit higher frequency than any of the other numbers.  Think of '11' as super-reinforced number '2' and '22' as a super-reinforced number '4'.  

Based on her numbers, it's an understatement to say that Oksana emits some heavy duty vibes and is not easily deterred or put off.  This does not excuse Mel Gibson in any way shape or form from his atrocious behavior. However, he has more than met his match and she is not going to be any pushover.

Interestingly, 2010 is a '7' year for Mel and the number '7' symbolizes 'relationships' so that certainly rings true considering what he is going through now with Oksana.  His birthday is l/3/1956 making him a Capricorn, the Go-Getters of the Universe, and giving him a Destiny or Lifepath Number of '7'. Now, the number '7' corresponds to the Chariot of the Major Arcana in the Tarot and there is nothing subtle about the Chariot. The card depicts a man driving his chariot at break-neck speed.  The implication is that he has no brakes.  In a reading, the card signifies someone with a dominating will and their tendency to try and control life and its vicissitudes through the sheer force of their personality (R. Pollack).  The Chariot is pure Ego and unbridled testosterone.  Sure sounds like Mel!


Given the prevailing influence of the Chariot on Mel, he will find no peace or rest until he makes a concerted effort to incorporate temperance and balance in his life which, as of now, is careening precipitously in a downward spiral.

Senin, 21 Juni 2010

The Williams Sisters: Crazy 8s

Venus and Serena have dazzling numbers, just as Roger Federer does, although Venus outshines her sister, but not by much. I'll start with Venus.

Venus was born June 17th, 1980 making her Destiny Number, or Life Path Number, an 8 and 8 is, of course, the jackpot number promising health, prosperity and success e.g., big success. 8s like everything bigger, grander and more fabulous. Two other personalities with 8 as a Life Path Number include Elizabeth Taylor and Roger Federer.

Venus really outdoes herself because her Expression Number (derived from her name) is also an 8 as is Elizabeth Taylor's.

And with respect to Venus's birthday, if you 'reduce' the 17th to 1 plus 7 you arrive at still another 8!

I'm not done. 2010 is going to be an 8 year for her.

I don't think I've ever done a reading that has revealed so many 8s. Just phenomenal.

As if having all those 8s weren't enough, Venus is blessed with the letter 'v' which is a  Master Letter that corresponds to the number 11, one of two Master Numbers. Interestingly, Roger Federer also has an 11 in his numbers. His name is an 11. As I explained about Roger, 11s emit a powerful and positive energy. 11s make their mark and leave it for posterity.

Her sister, Serena, has some pretty impressive numbers herself.  For starters, both 'Serena' and 'Williams' correspond to the number 8 respectively.

And, just like her big sister, Serena's birthday, the 26th, when 'reduced' is also an 8.

Unfortunately, 2010 is not going to be an 8 year for her, rather, Serena is looking at a 2. This could mean she will not win any major Grand Slams or may imply that this year and that she will have to be content being in the 'shadow' of number 1 or it could imply that 2010 will be a harmonious and balanced one, which is always a desirable thing.

Regardless of their numbers, I don't think anyone would dispute the fact that Venus and Serena are a winning combination.  After all, when you 'reduce' their first names to the smallest single digit it's, what a surprize, an 8!

Minggu, 20 Juni 2010

Roger Federer and Rafael Nadal: Match Point

I've just finished doing Federer's and Nadal's numbers and Federer's numbers are simply brilliant!  Let's take a look.

Federer's birth date is August 8th, 1981 which makes him a Leo and Leos are the 'stars' of the Universe. He was not only born in the eighth month, August, but was born on the eighth as well! And as followers of this blog and numerologists  know 8 is your jack pot number. It symbolizes health, wealth, prosperity and success and I  mean success with a capital 's'.  In China the number 8 is so revered that their recent Summer Olympics began on August 8 at 8pm! And if Roger was not already lucky enough, his Destiny Number (derived from the numbers in your birthday) is also an 8! Yikes!

Roger has been equally as fortunate with his Expression Number (derived from the letters in one's name) which is 11, which is one of the two Master Numbers (the other being 22). And anyone with a Master Number associated with their name is a mover and shaker. They leave their imprint on the world. 11s are the visionaries of the Universe.  Another way to think of '11' is as a higher frequency of the number '2'. It emits the same energy as '2', but with greater intensity and power. '2s' are diplomatic and tactful. They are harmonious and balanced. They navigate on smooth waters. They are not easily ruffled or flustered. They retain a calm and cool composure which, I think, are attributes one might easily ascribe to Federer.

What kind of year is Federer going to have? Well, his numbers indicate that he is in a '1' year which means he will enjoy being ranked as the number one tennis player in the world for at least part of the time.

Now, on to Nadal whose numbers are not quite so dazzling. His Destiny Number is 6 and 6 is the number of perfection and responsibility. It's also the number most closely associated with domesticity and family. This seems appropriate as Nadal's family is an extremely close knit one and they are of paramount importance to him. In fact, his parent's divorce last year was cited as one of the major reasons, along with his knee injuries, why he performed so poorly in 2009.

Nadal's Expression Number is 3 and 3s are the optimists of the Universe. They emit a forceful positive energy. They are the enthusiasts who are rarely discouraged. This seems to fit Nadal's temperament to a tee. Although hugely competitive, he remains positive despite the outcome. I don't think I have ever heard him make a disparaging remark about another player. Admirable indeed. And, of course, 3 is one of the luckiest numbers there is in both Eastern and Western cultures.

Nadal also has a 9 in his make-up. If you add his birth month of June, which is a 6, with his birthday, which is 3, you have 9 and 9 symbolizes exulted status and greatness. It also signifies longevity.

As to who will win Winbledom this year it's a tough one to call even numerologically.  That is, of course, if they make the finals, which I hope they do. If they do, one would have to look at the date they are playing to make any kind of informed reading. Of course, Nadal has that 'l' at the end of his name and 'ls' are notorious for always having to have the last word.  Hm mm.....

Finally, Nadal's and Federers' rivalry was destined to be as they share 4 letters together, 'r', 'd', 'e' and 'f'. Theirs is a cosmic overlap, so to speak. Interestingly, if you add up the numerical equivalents to the 4 letters they share you get the number 6 which is, of course, Nadal's Destiny Number which may indicate that he will ultimately supersede his 'twin', Federer. Don't forget that Nadal being a Gemini has a twin. And strangest of all is that Nadal's full  name not only shares the  'f', 'e', 'd' and 'r', but that they spell 'fedr'. What's one to make of that?  It ususally means that the person holding the other's name within their name has the upper hand.  Pretty powerful stuff. We'll just have to wait and see, but I'm putting my money on Rafa.

Anna Paquin and Stephen Moyer: True Blood and True Blue

This is a very interesting couple because for two people who are engaged to be married they share no vowels and only one consonant, a 'p', so one could surmise that they are not a 'match' as sharing letters is often a harbinger of romantic good luck. 

Their shared 'p' corresponds to a '7' in numerology and 7s symbolize spirituality.7s vibrate to a non-materialistic frequency. They remain unattached to the concrete or physical. They are introspective and reflective. There is nothing casual or lightweight about the number 7. It emits an intense and penetrating energy.

7's ruling planet is Neptune, who was the Roman God of the Sea, and is also the ruling planet of Pisces. Astrologically, Neptune is associated with idealism and compassion and, sometimes, with delusion.  It is also associated with spirituality and mysticism, religion, art and music, fantasy and imagination, psychic phenomena and altered mental states.  In short, the non-literal world.  In medicine, Neptune is particularly associated with the thalamus, the spinal cord and mysterious or obscure illnesses and neuroses (Wikipedia).

With respect to Paquin and Moyer, the number seven in Chinese culture symbolizes 'togetherness'. It is the ultimate good luck number for relationships and marriages.  And here in the West 7 is one of our luckiest numbers, if not the luckiest. 

Therefore, although this couple shares only one letter, a 'p',  it's an excellent one and bodes well for their union.  Moreover, the number 9 in China, in addition to signifying status and greatness, is the homophone for their word for 'longlasting' making it a frequent talisman at weddings.






Jumat, 04 Juni 2010

O.J. Simpson and Joran van der Sloot: Numbers in Crime

After posting yesterday about van der Sloot and his alleged victims, I thought it might be interesting to take a look at O.J. Simpson's numbers along with those of his victims Nicole Brown and Ron Goldman.

Heres' what I found:

-O.J.'s name corresponds to the ill-fated number 4 just as Joran's does.  Remember that 4 is associated with with the bad luck number 13 as 1 plus 3 equals 4.  Remember, too, that many people associate the number 4 with 'death' because in Chinese culture the number 4  is a homophone for their word for 'death' and is consequently shunned.

-Along the same eerie lines is this finding. Nicole Brown also corresponds to the number 4! In fact, her first name, Nicole, is a 4 and her last name, Brown, is a 9 which symbolizes 'endings' and 'death' while her first and last names together add up to a 4 (the number 9 can also symbolize 'status' and 'prestige' as it is the largest single digit number. By the same token, it is also the last single digit before 10, hence the 'ending' interpretation.)
-Nicole and Ron were murdered on June 12th which corresponds to the number 9, another 'ending'.

Enough for now. On to more sleuthing.